Scam or Best website for Affairs?

MWF: My Experience on Ashley Madison

Jul30
2012 Leave a Comment Written by Anthony

I have been on the site for 2 weeks. I am a MWF and I have to say, the site is genius as well as dangerous. If you look at the stats for the married women that cheat using the site, I fit that statistic to a T.

In my two weeks, I have tried my best to contact everyone, but there are just too many men! After 1 week and feeling a bit stressed out from all of the messages, I finally decided that I needed more parameters so I made my profile more specific like location and age range with a bit of wit. Those who got my attention with a witty message as well as being nice looking, I was interested in more. Through this I was able to weed out a lot. I wasn’t just looking for sex, I wanted a connection and that feeling in your stomach you get when you like someone, which makes the sex that much better. I have met with three men and all have been wonderful and hot. I will not disclose the details of my meetings with these men but I think I this process has made me much more confident with myself and how I view sex. Why can’t women act like men? This thought alone is very liberating if we can make sure we are mindful about our indiscretions. Nobody is looking for love on the site, it’s a hook
up game. But how we get to the hooking up, is the most fun.

 

Missy

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Ashley Madison is for real, but be careful!

Jul25
2012 Leave a Comment Written by Anthony

I am female and joined for free. Bonus!!! I got lots of emails and most were rude, vulgar, and from men who where not at all what I stated I was interested in. Only a few messages were worth answering. In record time, I met a great guy and we are having so much fun. He is a gentleman. (let that be a huge clue to all the men on AM) But, when I tried to delete my account with AM, they asked for money to remove any trace of me being on that site. They get you one way or another…lol

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Ashley Madison worked fairly well for me

Jun20
2012 Leave a Comment Written by Anthony

I have used AM on and off for about 5 years. In that time I’ve had 7 face to face meetings with women, and 3 relationships. I live in a small Midwestern college town so I was surprised with how many potential women were out there but they were there and I had a good response rate. Many email correspondences went nowhere but I imagine that’s how any online dating works. Sine I was concerned about discretion the site was worth the cost, I had no problems with any aspect of AM and for married folks looking to find some fun I would recommend the site enthusiastically.

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Ashley Madison experiences from a woman

Jun03
2012 Leave a Comment Written by Anthony

I have used Ashley Madison off and on since 2005. I had not been on the site since ’06. I was in a setting where I was not looking for a man for a casual affair for many years. I created a new account a few months ago. Now, I just log on for entertainment.

For one thing, I live in an area where the pickings are not that great re: men if a woman is actually looking for a relationship. Even if a woman is younger and very pretty, it is still not so easy to find a quality man in this part of the USA. The men on Ashley Madison…please! There are too many single men who believe this is the cheapest way to get laid. Most of the men are demanding photos of women in all sorts of angles so they can get an “idea” of her but all I see if face shots of these fellows.

I am also a single woman but do not want the troubles of a conventional relationship. Yet, I do not want a single man because of the attitude of how they want multiple relationships which result in the risk of disease. I will be traveling later this year so I can change my location for that month out of town.

Even when living in a more densely populated area, it still was not easy to find a quality man. Many men feel they are truly the best thing around and believe that a woman is to put out on demand. Men, too, have fake profiles with the stock photos and the too-good-to-be-true descriptions of themselves.

I have really given up in this area.

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Ashley Madison works, for some…

May08
2012 Leave a Comment Written by Anthony

I signed up for Ashley Madison in 2007, and I don’t know how many women I have actually met with in that time, but I tried to keep track of how many I actually slept with and it’s now over 20.  I started with a regular-guy-type profile, with pictures of myself, which got me a couple of responses in a few months. I was surprised to see so many cheating wives on the site. I then decided to post ‘rated’ pics of myself as I am generously endowed, and the number of responses I got increased dramatically.  I am saying this just to point out that to a lot of women, size does matter, especially when they are mainly looking for sexual satisfaction.  A lot of the women on there go on about finding a friend and blah blah blah, but I’m sure they already have friends and if that’s the main thing they were looking for they would be on a much different website.  What’s the point in being friends with a guy from there if in the end he sucks in bed?  I think a lot of women may not admit it but in the end they want a great lover, not a great friend.
In the end guys, if you’re not attractive or buff or rich or well endowed, your chances are probably not good.  However, there are lots of overweight unattractive women on there as well, so if you can get over the idea that you’re going to find a supermodel you might have better luck.

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A few suggestions from a female member

Apr30
2012 Leave a Comment Written by Anthony

Story sent in by Lilly

I joined the site looking for a sexual affair.  I got much more than I ever expected.  I wound up finding a guy who was my absolute fantasy.  Things were strictly sexual for awhile…then emotions started getting involved.  We ended things on a good note.  I am back looking again, and like Erika in another post mentioned, guys say they don’t get replies from women.  I have 3 things to say about this: one, if I am looking for a guy like XYZ, and you are ABC, why on earth would you reply to my ad? I am obviously not going to be interested; two, PLEASE don’t ask me to send my pic (key) without an introduction of some sort as well as sending your pic (key) to me.  I do not want to be in your “collection” of pics (although I don’t have sexy/dirty pics attached to my key), and three, PLEASE don’t send me a **** pic because I will not reply to you!  I am a real woman who has had pretty good success on the site.  But men have to remember there are many more guys on there than women,
and we can afford to be as picky as we want to be.

 

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I love Ashley Madison

Apr30
2012 Leave a Comment Written by Anthony

Story sent by Sara

I can assure you that in less than 2 weeks I had over 300 messages.  Most of them did get deleted UNLESS they had a real subject in the subject line.  I have met 2 GREAT people on the web site.  Have chatted on yahoo with several others.  I can say dont send pictures of you junk with your key in the intial message.  To me, that is a player and will be deleted.  I am not looking to get a STD!!!  I was looking to have a good time and smile with someone that needs it as much as I do.  I have found that!!

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AshleyMadison is great only for females?

Mar19
2012 Leave a Comment Written by admin

Story sent in by Rebecca, New York NY

Hi my name is Rebecca and here is my story. I signed up on Ashley Madison for obvious reasons. I wanted to have an affair. We all know having an affair is a tricky business and also a very hard decision to make in a person’s life. When I signed up I was sold by their discretion and how Ashleymadison is the most famous in the industry… you know the famous “life is short. Have an affair“. Now here is the truth, I have talked with so many men I cannot even remember, for a female this AshleyMadison experience is WOW overwhelming. I had a lot of fun on the website and I have had a few affairs and hot hookups. For men though the website can be very hard. There are way more men that women and so women are bombarded with messages. Sometimes I could not even reply to all the messages I was receiving. Does AshleyMadison suck? it does and it doesn’t. The website feels dated and some of the features feel a little bit old for the day and age, but after all it does get the job done, I have had an affair, actually multiple affairs. All I can say to the male world on Ashley Madison is, when writing messages try to impress, try to grab women’s attention since you guys have a lot of competition… I do not consider myself overly attractive I am an average housewife/mother and I still managed to get bombarded with emails. I hope my “how to have an affair” will help other people better understand the reality of the website and understand that competition is fierce.

Kisses from Becca. XX

 

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AshleyMadison Affair Guarantee should clear things up

Mar19
2012 Leave a Comment Written by admin

Story sent in by Drew.

I have been reading a few different review sites regarding Ashley Madison and there are definitely mixed reviews on the matter. I am gonna give my two cents hoping to clear the confusion up since there seem to be a lot of people thinking the whole website is a scam. Well, let me tell you one think, It is not. AshleyMadison is definitely the only one offering an Affair Guarantee package and if you follow all the instructions from the terms and conditions and you do not have an affair they will give you a full refund. I have been on the website for about a year and I first started buying the basic package for $49; The package did not allow me to talk to many people and after reading through the Affair Guarantee package I decided to purchase it and follow all the steps closely so that I would be eligible for a refund. I follow each single step and I met a few people but I did not get laid. I called customer service asking to get a refund since after following all the steps I did not have an affair. The representative told me that I would have to complete an online form and that in a few days they would have been able to determine whether I was eligible for a refund or not. After about 8 days I called back and I was told that I was eligible for a refund but they had a few options to give me if I wanted to remain a member and try again to meet women to have an affair with. They offered me instead of a full refund to give me 1500 credits so that I could keep communicating with members and so that I could initiate conversations with new members. I took the credits instead and as I speak I finally had an affair with a beautiful woman that in the same situation, in a boring sexless marriage. So can I say the website is a scam? I really cannot say that, I can only say that some of their practises are a little bit tricky and can trap people into autobilling and such. But the website can work and can allow you to meet women or men looking to have an affair. I hope my review will help clear some of this confusion regarding the website.

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What is Ashley Madison? Is it really the Best for Discreet Affairs?

Mar15
2012 Leave a Comment Written by admin

Let me first explain what made me create this website, and why in the first place I found myself on such website. I found Ashley Madison some time ago when unsatisfied by my marriage I decided to look for an affair, have some little fun on the side, nothing serious, as they say on the internet dating websites I was looking for NSA fun. I came across AshleyMadison and the premises of the website are simple, “life is short. Have an affair“, they pride themselves in being the best for online affairs, and also for being discreet. Now if you are married obviously when looking for an affair you want it to be discreet. So I signed up on Ashley Madison and in no time I was receiving messages from women that were looking to have fun or NSA fun. I bought the basic introductory package for $49 dollars plus the mobile access since as explained before I did not wanna get caught so I decided that in being discreet using my mobile device would be my best bet.

The first package of credits did not get me any action, all I got was a few email addresses from females that I do not think were really looking for an affair, or at least, they were not looking for an affair from a physical point of you, but more for a platonic thing. Don’t get me wrong all these women who I have contacted through email now for some time are beautiful people and we have great chemistry, it is just that I do not wanna pay to meet email friends.

I contacted the Ashley Madison customer support centre complaining and all they could do for me was give me a few extra bonus credits and a few suggestions on how to attract more and better responses from females. They gave me about 50 credits and told me that on the website male members have to patient since women on the website are very cautious with whom they decide to talk to. The 50 credits again did not get me any action once again! Also, what I did find to be extremely weird and suspicious is the fact that every time I ran out of credits new messages from women would start coming in and so tempting me to buy more credits.

To make my story short, on Ashley Madison I have spent about $500 dollars and countless hours reading messages from women that were either suspicious or plain scammers. Is it all bad? I cannot say that, because I did have 2 affairs. One of them turned out to be just a one night stand, and for a one night stand let me tell you it was amazing, and it was the best NSA fun I have ever had in my entire life. The other affair (and for that matter is the actual one) turned out to be a great side relationship with this wonderful woman that. We have been seeing each other for about 3 months now, and I can finally say I have had an affair.

This is my story and regardless of the terrible things people have said about it I still managed to find what I was looking for, a great discreet affair. I am sure there are fake profiles and they somehow try to push members to buy more credits, but I know now for sure there are real women on the website, all you have to do is find them. The website is definitely one of the better ones for amount of members and for being discreet. Life is short. Have an Affair!

Anthony.

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