I have been on the site for 2 weeks. I am a MWF and I have to say, the site is genius as well as dangerous. If you look at the stats for the married women that cheat using the site, I fit that statistic to a T.
In my two weeks, I have tried my best to contact everyone, but there are just too many men! After 1 week and feeling a bit stressed out from all of the messages, I finally decided that I needed more parameters so I made my profile more specific like location and age range with a bit of wit. Those who got my attention with a witty message as well as being nice looking, I was interested in more. Through this I was able to weed out a lot. I wasn’t just looking for sex, I wanted a connection and that feeling in your stomach you get when you like someone, which makes the sex that much better. I have met with three men and all have been wonderful and hot. I will not disclose the details of my meetings with these men but I think I this process has made me much more confident with myself and how I view sex. Why can’t women act like men? This thought alone is very liberating if we can make sure we are mindful about our indiscretions. Nobody is looking for love on the site, it’s a hook
up game. But how we get to the hooking up, is the most fun.